Buying into antiquated narratives of how to celebrate love is canceled. If you’re single this Valentine’s Day, you’ll want to read this!

I’m not shy when it comes to talking about my love life. It’s also no secret that I’m a social butterfly. So last week, when my co-workers asked me why I was excited to be attending a few Congressional Black Caucus events, I answered honestly; “because my husband might be there.” Just as I was patting myself on the back for garnering some laughs with my cheeky response, one of my co-workers muttered, “I’m pretty sure I swiped left on my husband already!” The room erupted with laughter, but I couldn’t help but wonder, “Did I swipe left on my husband?” Cue mini panic attack.

If love is a learning process, I'm a work in progress full of insights you won't want to miss.  Today I'm sharing 3 lessons I've learned from dating all the wrong guys.